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Thursday, July 04, 2024

The Dark Empath: When Manipulation Meets Understanding

  1. The Dark Triad - Machiavellianism, psychopathy, and narcissism - has long been associated with cunning charm and a chilling lack of empathy (Heym et al., 2021). But what if there's more to the story? Recent research suggests a surprising wrinkle: the Dark Empath.

The Traditional Dark Triad: A Recipe for Exploitation?

Imagine someone who is manipulative, exploitative, and lacks empathy. That's the classic DT profile. These individuals often use their charm to gain your trust, only to exploit you for their own benefit. Their lack of empathy makes them unconcerned with your feelings, leaving a trail of emotional wreckage in their wake. Here's where things get interesting; according to Heym and colleagues (2021), studies show that the relationship between empathy and DT might be more complex than initially thought, and here's why:

  • Shades of Empathy: Empathy isn't a single switch - it's a spectrum. Cognitive empathy, the ability to understand another's perspective, might be present in some with DT traits.
  • A Cast of Characters: The DT might not be a monolithic group. There could be sub-categories - those with and without empathy.
  • Enter the Dark Empath

    This concept proposes a subgroup within the DT who possess a surprising ability: high cognitive empathy alongside manipulative and exploitative characteristics (Heym et al., 2021). Imagine someone who "gets you," understands your emotions, but then uses that knowledge to control and manipulate you.  Talk about creepy! Our personalities are complex tapestries woven from five broad traits: Agreeableness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Openness, and Neuroticism, according to Heym and colleagues (2021), and research suggests a link between low Agreeableness and the DT, particularly Machiavellianism.  However, the picture gets fuzzier when it comes to Neuroticism (anxiety and emotional instability). The relationship may vary depending on the individual. With its unique blend of empathy and manipulation, the Dark Empath might have a distinct personality profile compared to the traditional DT. They may score higher on Agreeableness and Neuroticism.  Further research is needed to explore this intriguing possibility.

    The Takeaway: Not All Darkness is the Same

    The concept of the Dark Empath challenges our understanding of the DT.  It suggests empathy and manipulation can co-exist, making these individuals even more dangerous.  By recognizing the different shades of darkness, we can better protect ourselves from those who seek to exploit us.  So, the next time someone seems to "get you" a little too well,  be cautious! It might be a sign of a genuine connection or the chilling presence of a Dark Empath. (Heym et al., 2021)

     References

    1. Heym, N., Kibowski, F., Bloxsom, C. A. J., Blanchard, A., Harper, A., Wallace, L., Firth, J., & Sumich, A. (2021). The Dark Empath: Characterising dark traits in the presence of empathy. Personality and Individual Differences, 169, https://doi.org/10.1016/j.paid.2020.110172

    Wednesday, July 03, 2024

    Decoding Gangstalking Videos: Content, Techniques, and Considerations

     The concept of gangstalking is complex, and the videos you're interested in likely present a specific perspective. Here's a deeper dive into what the research suggests about these videos and the broader topic ( Lustig et al., 2021):

    Understanding the Video Content:

    • Structure and Techniques: These videos borrow the format of familiar genres like vlogs and documentaries. They typically start with an introduction, then transition to presenting "evidence" – often shaky, real-time footage captured by the person experiencing gangstalking. The conclusion might be absent, leaving viewers with a heightened sense of unease. Creators leverage techniques like deictic strategies to focus viewers' attention on specific details in the footage, potentially amplifying their interpretation of these details as proof of gangstalking. The narration, text overlays, and visuals help build a narrative reinforcing the gangstalking belief.

    • Building Rapport and Framing the Narrative: The videos often employ strategies to connect with viewers. Creators might address them directly using friendly language, fostering a sense of shared experience and trust. Conversely, they might depict those they believe are gangstalking them through negative language and specific camera framing, creating a sense of "us vs. them."

    Important Considerations:

    According to Lustig and colleagues (2021):

    • Focus of the Research: This research primarily analyzes how people who believe in gangstalking utilize YouTube to share their experiences. It doesn't attempt to verify the existence of gangstalking itself.

    • Mental Health Connection: There's a strong correlation between the creation of these videos and underlying mental health issues. The videos can manifest these struggles, and viewers who identify with the content might also be experiencing similar challenges.

    • Lack of Scientific Evidence: Scientific evidence is needed to support the existence of large-scale, coordinated gangstalking.







    References
    • Lustig, A., Brookes, G., & Hunt, D. (2021/10//). Social Semiotics of Gangstalking Evidence Videos on YouTube: Multimodal Discourse Analysis of a Novel Persecutory Belief System. JMIR Mental Health, 8(10)https://doi.org/10.2196/30311

    Gangstalking Forums: Online Support or Echo Chamber?

    The internet offers a unique space for connection and community. But for those struggling with the unusual belief system of gangstalking, online forums can be a double-edged sword (Lustig et al., 2021):

    1.   Gangstalking refers to a persecutory delusion where individuals believe they are being harassed and targeted by a large group of people (This belief is often accompanied by feelings of isolation and fear. 
    2. For those experiencing gangstalking, online forums can be a lifeline. Here, they connect with others who share their experiences, validate their feelings, and develop a common language to describe their torment. 
    3. Terms like "targeted individuals" (TIs) and "perps" (perpetrators) become a way to express and understand their reality. However, the insular nature of these forums can create significant drawbacks.

    The Echo Chamber Effect:

    Imagine a room where every conversation reinforces a single idea. That's what online forums can become for TIs.  Surrounded by others who share their belief in gangstalking, individuals rarely encounter differing perspectives. This confirmation bias makes it difficult to consider alternative explanations for their experiences, like mental health conditions and discourages seeking professional help. (Lustig et al., 2021)


     It's Important to Note:

    This discussion isn't meant to dismiss or minimize the very real struggles of those experiencing gangstalking beliefs.  Their feelings of fear and isolation are valid.  The goal here is to introduce a different point of view into these online spaces.  By understanding the potential downsides of echo chambers, we can create an opportunity for individuals to consider alternative explanations for their experiences.  This might open the door to seeking professional help and finding a path toward healing.

    The Fabrication of Reality:

    The constant focus on gangstalking within these forums can blur the lines between perception and reality, according to Lustig and colleagues (2021): 

    1. Shared stories and terminology solidify the concept of gangstalking as a real threat.  
    2. This can make it challenging to distinguish between genuine harassment and coincidental events, further entrenching the belief system.

    What This Means:

    For someone genuinely experiencing stalking, online gangstalking forums can be misleading and harmful. They may prevent individuals from getting the professional help they genuinely need.

    Finding Help:

    If you are concerned about someone who believes they are being gangstalked, encourage them to seek professional help from a licensed therapist or mental health professional. These individuals can provide support, explore alternative explanations for their experiences, and recommend appropriate treatment plans.

    Remember:

    While online forums can offer a sense of community, it's essential to approach them with a critical eye. If you suspect gangstalking delusions, encourage the person to seek professional help.

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    #mentalhealthsupportgroups

     References

    • Lustig, A., Brookes, G., & Hunt, D. (2021). Linguistic analysis of online communication about a novel persecutory belief system (gangstalking): Mixed methods study. Journal of Medical Internet Research, 23(3). https://doi-org.ezproxy.snhu.edu/10.2196/25722

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