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Wednesday, June 26, 2024

Setting Boundaries: Your Guide to Safe & Empowered Escorting (Gay Men)

 Escorting can be a lucrative path for some gay men, but navigating client interactions and maintaining healthy boundaries is essential. Here are some tips to empower yourself:

Know Your Limits: ❗️

Services Offered: Be upfront about what you will and won't do. Don't feel pressured to exceed your comfort zone.

Safety First: Always meet in a public place for the first meeting and prioritize your safety throughout interactions.

Emotional Detachment: It's okay to be friendly, but establish boundaries to avoid emotional entanglement with clients.

Communication is Key! ️


Clear Expectations: Discuss expectations openly before an encounter. This includes time limits, services provided, and payment terms.

Direct & Firm: Don't be afraid to refuse requests that violate your boundaries. Your comfort matters most.

End It When Needed: If a client makes you uncomfortable, have a safety plan to end the interaction. Trust your gut!

**Remember Your Worth! **


Value Your Time: Set your rates competitively and stick to them. Don't undervalue your services.

Self-Care Essential: Escorting can be emotionally demanding. Prioritize self-care practices to maintain your well-being.

You Deserve Respect: Demand respectful treatment from clients. Don't tolerate inappropriate behavior.

Building a Successful & Safe Career


Look Out for Each Other: Build a network with other escorts to support and share safety tips.

Empowerment Through Knowledge: Stay informed about safety resources and legal aspects of escorting.

You Are Strong & Capable! Believe in yourself and your ability to navigate the world of escorting on your own terms.

Remember, you are in control. You can create a successful and empowering career path by setting boundaries and prioritizing your safety and well-being.


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