In his story, Justin states that he craved solitude. It wasn't just about avoiding bullies but a desperate need to escape the crushing weight of depression. He distanced himself from everyone, even his mom, who he used to confide in. His days blurred together, filled with music, books, and a growing numbness. (Justin (pseudonym) & Stacey (Justin's mother), 2009)
But numbness isn't an escape. It's a desperate attempt to avoid feeling at all. A twisted desire arose in that emptiness - Justin craved to feel anything.
That's when the cutting began. It wasn't about ending his life; it was a warped way to feel alive again. Justin's physical pain became a twisted substitute for emotional connection. Justin states that the scars on his wrist mirrored the deeper wounds inflicted by bullies and his self-hatred. Thankfully, Justin's mom intervened. Therapy helped him to stop cutting, and for a while, he felt like he was healing. But Justin states that quitting therapy too soon was a huge mistake. Justin's suicidal thoughts returned, more vital than ever. The idea of escape, of not having to face the bullies or his pain, became his dark obsession. The pain that Justin craved transformed into a desire to end it all.
This is Where You, the Reader, Come In
Teachers, counselors, coaches – you have the power to make a difference. Look beyond grades or classroom behavior. See the students who withdraw and seem perpetually lost in thought.
Here are some signs of depression to watch out for:
- Withdrawal from friends and activities
- Loss of interest in hobbies
- Changes in sleep or appetite
- Difficulty concentrating
Expressions of hopelessness or worthlessness
If you see these signs, don't hesitate to reach out. Talk to th
e student and let them know you care. Offer resources like the school counselor or a teen helpline. You might be the lifeline they desperately need. Because every student deserves to feel safe, supported, and like they have a reason to keep going.
#YouAreNotAlone
References
Justin (pseudonym), & Stacey (Justin's mother). (2009, December 31). A 15-Year-Old Boy’s Personal Story of Being Bullied & Attempting Suicide [Review of A 15-Year-Old Boy’s Personal Story of Being Bullied & Attempting Suicide]. https://learningcloud.infobase.com/5730/learnit
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