A Full Life: Beyond Happiness?

 

Imagine a young woman named Brooke Greenberg, 20 years old, who appears to be a baby of just a few months (Haybron, 2013).  Brooke has a scarce condition called Syndrome X, which halts intellectual and physical development past the toddler stage. Despite this, Brooke has a loving family that cherishes her and finds immense joy in her present. The situation raises an interesting question: can someone who never reaches maturity still be considered to have a full life?

On one hand, happiness is a crucial factor. Brooke's family clearly adores her, and she seems content. In these moments of joy, we can say she's thriving. However, it's difficult to ignore the feelings that someone who remains in a permanent child-like state might miss the crucial aspects of everyday life. There is an undeniable loss here.

But here's where things get complex. It's essential to avoid the trap of pity. Disabilities don't diminish a person's worth or prevent someone from flourishing. In fact, disabilities can often enrich families and individuals, fostering compassion and a deeper appreciation for life's simple joys (Haybron, 2013).   However, it's also unrealistic to deny the downsides of some disabilities. In cases like Syndrome X or blindness, there's a clear sense of missing out on specific experiences that most people consider essential to a whole life (Haybron, 2013). This isn't unique to disabilities. We might feel the same way about someone who dies young, never experiences intimacy, or endures long stretches of imprisonment. These situations all involve a sense of irreplaceable loss (Haybron, 2013). Even someone who chooses limitations, like a priest taking a vow of celibacy, might acknowledge a sacrifice. They may gain immensely in other areas but still need to catch up on something valuable in human experience.  

So, can someone be genuinely well-off yet still feel lost without specific experiences? True well-being extends beyond happiness and involves living an entire life that doesn't feel incomplete (Habron, 2013). It is important to note that a whole life isn't always an all-or-nothing proposition. Even with limitations, a life can be rich and fulfilling. However, these cases challenge us to consider the complexities of well-being and the ideas of an irreplaceable loss ( Haybron, 2013).      

While some might find these scenarios debatable, they raise important questions about what truly constitutes a whole life. Based on Haybron's (2013) views, the answer might lie I recognizing the vast spectrum of human experiences and the importance of appreciating the unique way each person navigates their journey.

   References;

1. Haybron, Daniel M., 'Beyond happiness: well-being,' Happiness: A Very Short Introduction, Very Short Introductions (Oxford, 2013; online edn, Oxford Academic, 24 Sept. 2013), https://doi-org.ezproxy.snhu.edu/10.1093/actrade/9780199590605.003.0006, accessed 26 June 2024.